Dealing in the Aftermath of Student Loss

Focus: SCHOOL SUPPORT

The most tragic and difficult crisis we deal with in K-12 education, by far, is the death of a child.

When a child dies, whether by accident or personal health, the school building administration typically is the first to know as the family may not be sure where else to turn.

In our 12,500-student school district, it’s not uncommon for a principal or assistant principal to travel to the hospital to be with the grieving family. While this falls outside of the scope of our job as educators, what we do is ultimately centered around caring for our students. The family may be feeling lost, and a trusted adult figure who can stay calm under stress is an invaluable resource.

In Elkhart, Ind., we’ve tragically faced the death of a student more than once in recent years. It never gets easier, but it can be helpful to have a plan in place.